Cursing is one of the most unattractive things in the world coming from a women but at the same time, sexy? if used properrr. I curse excessively /: So I decided that I wanted to be tone it down. I want people to feel that I am an open person to approach. I also, want to try being nicer… I say rude things without thinking , assuming that people will understand it’s a joke but Ohhh wellls. No more of that, I’ll actually really try to make an effort to be … unsadistic? unsarcastic? Something of that sort.